Lesson 4: Drawing Out the Heart

Lesson 4 includes two videos. The first covers the biblical foundation for addressing sin and conflict. The second demonstrates the practical application of those biblical principles. This is a challenging lesson, in part because so few of us were trained on biblical conflict resolution. Watch these videos as much as you need. Lesson outlines and other helpful materials have been included below.

Video 1 – Biblical Principles

Video 2 – Practical Application

Lesson 4 Outline Handout
Lesson 4 Guided Questions & Answers Handout
Lesson 4 Devotional Series Handout
It Starts and Ends in the Heart Teaching Lesson

Additional Resources

Godly Sorrow Resources Handout
Reaching Godly Sorrow Question Cards Fridge poster
Lesson 4 – Q&A Zoom Calls Outside resource
Addressing Attitudes Teaching Lesson

Additional Video Resources

Video Example DelaCruz Family getting to the heart.

Q&A Call: practical implementation for children ages 0-5

Q&A call: practical implementation for children ages 6-12

Q&A call: practical implementation for children 13 & up

Suggested Read for Lesson

Taming the Lecture Bug Book A wonderful book that details how to curb and replace the propensity to lecture

The 5 Apology Languages: The Secret to Healthy Relationships Book A deeper study into the forgiveness and restoration process

How to Stop the Pain Book Learn to seek understanding and not judge (not make assumptions about others’ behavior)