Virtue

Self-Control

Ages 0-5

Choosing what is right over what feels easy; waiting for God’s timing.

Subcategories: Disciplined, Patient, Calm, Wise. Vices: Impulsiveness, Anger, Indulgence, Impatience

Delayed gratification, restraint, discipline, temperance. Vice: Rash, Impulsivity, Anger, Careless

Ways to practice

Self-Control Sit Time

Process for training children 3 and up to have self-control over their words and bodies

Blanket Time

The delayed gratification technique is used to train small children in patience and self-control

How to Interrupt One Another The Right Way

Instructions on training children the proper way to interrupt adults

Videos

Blanket Time - 18 month old

Blanket Time Demonstration

Blanket Time example with multiple children

Self-control training

Self-Control Training

Self Control Sit Time

Self-Control Sit Time Example

How to Interrupt - Ramirez

How to Interrupt

A Parenting Hack To Stop Your Kids From Interrupting Adult Conversations! #parentinghack

Another example of teaching children to interrupt respectfully.

Lessons and handouts

  • Self-Control | 5-day study HandoutOpens in Google Drive

    A 5 Day study in Self-Control. Can be used alone or as a family devotional

  • Self-Control Resource: Blanket Time (Young Children) HandoutOpens in Google Drive

    The delayed gratification technique is used to train small children in patience and self-control

  • Self-Control Sit Time Training HandoutOpens in Google Drive

    Process for training children 3 and up to have self-control over their words and bodies

  • How to Interrupt One Another The Right Way HandoutOpens in Google Drive

    Instructions on training children the proper way to interrupt adults

  • Lesson 2: Train Up a Child Foundations lesson

    In the following lesson, we will begin discussing the process of training a child in the way they should go. Training is a marathon not a sprint. We will explore teaching our children through role-play and age appropriate training times, as well as intentionally planning and persevering in training our children to develop godly character.